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Ask Amy: Struggling relative wants to RSVP well

Published Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:23:08 GMT

Dear Amy: I’ve struggled with the thoughtful way to RSVP to certain events in the past and now that I’m once again facing this issue, I wonder if you could please offer me your considered opinion.I’m part of a large extended family (siblings, cousins, etc.), who are all truly successful and incredibly wealthy. I am proud of all their successes; however, I am in a far different situation.I am a retired adult who is solely responsible for the full-time care of my disabled adult child and live on a quite limited budget. That said, when I’ve been invited to some large celebratory events that require long flights, expensive travel plans, and managing difficult time zone shifts with my child, I’ve simply RSVP’d that we were sorry that we couldn’t attend (we DO attend events held at locations within our state).We’ve now been invited to another extravagant celebration overseas, planned over the course of a few days.Although it sounds amazing, ...

Word Game: April 15, 2023

Published Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:23:08 GMT

TODAY’S WORD — ATTRIBUTE (ATTRIBUTE: AT-rih-bute: A quality or characteristic closely associated with someone or something.)Average mark 39 wordsTime limit 60 minutesCan you find 55 or more words in ATTRIBUTE? The list will be published Monday.YESTERDAY’S WORD — SCATHED sachet sate scad scat scathe seat sect shad shade shed stead cadet case cash cast caste cesta chase chaste chat cheat chest aced ache acted tach teach tech haste hate head heat each east etch dash date death detachTo purchase the Word Game book, visit WordGameBooks.com. Order it now for just $5 while supplies last!RULES OF THE GAME:1. Words must be of four or more letters.2. Words that acquire four letters by the addition of “s,” such as “bats” or “dies,” are not allowed.3. Additional words made by adding a “d” or an “s” may not be used. For example, if “bake” is used, “baked” or “bakes” are not allowed, but “bake” and “baking” are admissible.4. Proper nouns, slang words, or vulgar or sexually...

Bridge: April 15, 2023

Published Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:23:08 GMT

“Simple Saturday” columns focus on basic technique and logical thinking.“To vacillate or not, that is the question; at least I think it might be.” — graffitiMany learning players are resolute about drawing trumps first; they have been taught that bad things can happen if the missing trumps are left as a threat. Worse things can happen if declarer draws trumps too soon.Today’s North-South reached a spade game that depended on finding East with the king of clubs. When West led the king of diamonds, declarer took dummy’s ace and … drew trumps with his A-K-Q and dummy’s jack.DOWN ONESouth next let the ten of clubs ride. The finesse won, but when he led a second club to his queen, West discarded. Dummy had no more entries, and East got his king for down one.In case of a 4-1 club break, South should lead a club to his queen at Trick Two. After he draws all the trumps, he passes the ten of clubs and leads a third club to his jack to lan...

10 Years After My Cancer Diagnosis, the Right Is Still Trying to Kill Me

Published Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:23:08 GMT

The dermatopathologist’s cancer diagnosis for Jon Schwarz in April 2013.Photo: Jon Schwarz/The InterceptThis is an update of a piece I wrote in 2013. Unfortunately, the exact same issues still exist now.Many people hate April 15 because of taxes. But I love it for not having cancer, because (KNOCK ON WOOD) I haven’t had cancer since tax season 10 years ago today.Early in 2013, I looked at the back of my right calf and thought, “Huh. That looks weird. Has that always looked like that?”At the time, I didn’t spend a lot of time looking at the back of my calves. I’m sure you don’t spend a lot looking at yours. Kind of like the dark side of the moon, they’re on the dark side of your body. And they’re not interesting enough to make a special effort. What do the backs of our calves do all day long? Who knows, they could be plotting to overthrow the government and we’d never notice.But for some reason, I did look at the back of my right calf. ...

What to know entering the NBA playoffs, which start Saturday

Published Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:23:08 GMT

Here’s a rarity: All five teams from one division are going to the NBA playoffs.And they pulled that off in a year where a division champion almost didn’t get there.All five teams from the Pacific Division — Sacramento, Phoenix, the Los Angeles Clippers, Golden State and the Los Angeles Lakers — have made the playoffs, which start Saturday.But Miami, the champion of the Southeast Division, almost missed out. The Heat got there Friday night by closing on a 15-1 run to beat Chicago 102-91 in the final Eastern Conference play-in game.Had the Heat lost, it would have been the first time in NBA history that a division winner wasn’t going to the playoffs.On the other end of the spectrum, the whole-division-goes feat had happened only two other times since the NBA went to the six-division, five-teams-in-each format starting with the 2004-05 season.The Central Division did it in 2006, and the Southwest Division pulled it off in 2015. It almost happened in the Northwest Division in 2018 when...

DeMar DeRozan’s daughter received online threats after the play-in win in Toronto, the Chicago Bulls star says: ‘It’s sad’

Published Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:23:08 GMT

After garnering unexpected fame during Wednesday’s play-in game against the Toronto Raptors, the daughter of Chicago Bulls star DeMar DeRozan needed to be escorted out of Scotiabank Arena by team security because of online threats.DeRozan confirmed the TNT story after Friday’s loss to the Miami Heat, emphasizing his frustration with the negativity aimed toward Diar, his 9-year-old daughter.“What’s crazy is it’s just the world that we live in,” DeRozan said. “No matter how good something could go, how good something could be, you still got miserable people out here who just don’t have a life. It’s sad.”Diar quickly caught attention during Wednesday’s game when she utilized her position under the basket to distract Raptors players during their free-throw attempts by screaming.Attention around her antics was escalated when the Raptors finished 18-for-36 from the free-throw line, which ultimately cost them the game. The s...

Matlow, Bailão, Chow leading pack of Toronto mayoral candidates: poll

Published Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:23:08 GMT

A new poll suggests that former city councillors Josh Matlow, Ana Bailão and longtime Canadian politician Olivia Chow are leading the pack regarding hopeful Toronto mayoral candidates.Mainstreet Research Poll surveyed just 746 residents in Toronto. Former police chief Mark Saunders is firmly in the mix, currently in fourth place.The automated phone survey named 15 registered or potential candidates for mayor and was carried out from Wednesday to Thursday. The results show Matlow has the support of 18.1 per cent of decided and leaning voters, followed by Bailão, a close ally to former mayor John Tory, at 16.8 per cent, respectively.RELATED: Mayoral candidates lay out visions for Ontario Place landChow, the former federal NDP Leader expected to officially announce her candidacy in the coming days, is directly behind Bailão, receiving 16.2 per cent of the vote.Saunders, meanwhile, received 12.6 per cent support in the latest poll. The former police chief has the trust of those surveyed...

Japan auteur Kitano’s latest samurai film headed to Cannes

Published Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:23:08 GMT

TOKYO (AP) — Takeshi Kitano’s new film, premiering at the Cannes Film Festival next month, is a samurai story without heroes, mercilessly portraying human greed, betrayal and cruelty. Kitano, awarded the Golden Lion at the Venice Film Festival for his “Hana-Bi” in 1997, wanted to make a different kind of period piece in “Kubi,” or “neck,” a reference to traditional Japanese beheadings.“Most samurai films portray famous people and don’t focus on the dirty side of human existence or show how evil people don’t care a hoot about slaughtering regular people,” Kitano told reporters Saturday.The story features a 16th-century feud centered around Oda Nobunaga, a powerful warlord — well known in Japan but not as familiar for overseas audiences. But the Shakespearean intrigues are familiar enough.The spectacular battle scenes evoke Akira Kurosawa classics like “Seven Samurai” and “Kagemusha,” according to Takeshi Natsuno, president of Kadokawa, the production company behind “Kubi.”Kitano, 76,...

Arrest made in animal rights plot to disrupt Grand National

Published Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:23:08 GMT

LIVERPOOL, England (AP) — A woman was arrested in connection with a plan by animal rights activists to disrupt the Grand National at Aintree racecourse on Saturday.Merseyside Police said the 33-year-old London-area woman was arrested on “suspicion of conspiracy to cause public nuisance.”The group Animal Rising had called on protesters to gather outside the racecourse to demand an end to “animal cruelty for entertainment.”The woman was arrested Saturday morning in the Greater Manchester area “in connection with potential co-ordinated disruption activities” at Aintree, police said. Her name was not publicly disclosed.“She is currently in custody where she will be questioned by officers,” the police statement said.Police said they have been working with race organizers ahead of and during the Grand National Festival.“We are aware of some people planning to protest at the event,” a police spokesperson said. “This has been factored into our plans. We respect the right to peaceful protest...

Mediators propose deal in German public sector pay dispute

Published Mon, 11 Nov 2024 03:23:08 GMT

BERLIN (AP) — A panel mediating between German public sector employers and labor unions put forward a compromise proposal Saturday to avert further strikes over pay.Mediators proposed a raise of 5.5% on top of a fixed 200-euro monthly increase for the millions of people that work in the public sector. The overall increase should result in employees getting at least 340 euros ($378) more every month under the proposal, which would run until December 2024, the panel said. The mediators also recommended a one-off payment of 3,000 euros ($3,331) — with lower sums for trainees — to balance out the inflation workers in Germany and elsewhere have suffered from recently.The non-binding proposal is intended to serve as the basis for further negotiations between employers and unions representing some 2.5 million workers.A 24-hour walkout over pay paralyzed trains, planes and public transit systems in Germany last month.The Associated Press